Totally get where you're coming from—went through something similar with my 14-year-old last year. She started acting distant, and one night I found out she was sneaking out to meet some older kids. Scared me to death. I looked into a bunch of apps and ended up doing a ton of digging before making any move. If you're just looking for a detailed, balanced take on XNSpy, I found this review super helpful: . It breaks down the pros/cons in a way that’s not too technical or salesy. Gave me a better idea of what I was getting into before I made any decisions.