Living with someone who constantly twists situations to make themselves look good or to avoid responsibility is draining. It took me a long time to recognize the patterns and understand that not all narcissistic behavior looks the same. Some people are loud and boastful, while others hide it behind kindness or vulnerability. What really opened my eyes was learning about the . Breaking it down this way helped me connect the dots and realize why certain interactions always left me confused, guilty, or emotionally exhausted. Once I understood that each type uses different tactics, whether it’s manipulation, control, or constant need for admiration, I could step back and protect my own boundaries. It doesn’t solve the problem overnight, but at least I’m no longer blaming myself for things that were never my fault. Knowledge gave me clarity, and clarity brought me peace.