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Why some bulls break the agreement

by katrinka » Wed Jul 23, 2025 6:20 pm

We’ve had two experiences so far, and both times the guy didn’t fully stick to what we agreed on. Nothing major, but enough to make things awkward after. Like one ignored the “no staying the night” rule, and the other got a little too pushy with messages the next day. We’re respectful and clear up front, so it’s frustrating when someone crosses those lines. Is this common? Do some bulls just not take the couple dynamic seriously, or are we just picking wrong?
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Re: Why some bulls break the agreement

by Blinchik » Thu Jul 24, 2025 3:44 pm

Happened to us too. Some guys are great at first, but once they’re “in,” they drop the respectful act. I think some bulls confuse being dominant with doing whatever they want, which is totally different. What helped us was tightening our screening process. We started using the Cuckold dating section to look deeper into how bulls describe themselves, especially their views on boundaries. The good ones always mention communication, not just performance. Those little cues helped us avoid the ones who treat it like a casual hook-up.
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Re: Why some bulls break the agreement

by JimmyMel » Mon Jul 28, 2025 12:07 pm

It’s usually a mismatch in expectations. Bulls who aren’t used to being part of a couple’s world can forget it’s not just about them. If they’ve only done solo stuff before, they often miss the emotional rules that go along with this kind of play. It’s not always bad intent — just inexperience or ego.
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